From Unsafe to Unshakable: How to Heal Horse Related Trauma, Build Confidence, and Become the Leader Your Horse Needs

Cowboy Campus University
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Have you ever sat on your horse and felt your chest tighten—not from the saddle, but from fear?

Maybe your horse did something unexpected and it rattled you. Maybe you're trying to come back after a fall, an accident, or a season of self-doubt. Or maybe you just don’t feel safe in the saddle anymore—and no amount of “just getting back on” has helped.

You’re not alone. And more importantly—you’re not broken.

Here at Cowboy Campus, we’ve seen time and time again that confidence doesn’t come from forcing yourself through fear. It comes from rebuilding safety and trust.

In your body.

In your horse.

In yourself.

That’s why we created something powerful:

🐴 Healing Inside a Herd of Two: A Safety, Healing & Trauma Guide

Value: $197 — Available now is a FREE bonus inside the Fundamentals Course

This isn’t just a PDF—it’s a fully written, science-backed, and deeply compassionate trauma-informed guide written by Shelby, with Keith’s horsemanship philosophy woven throughout.

Inside, you’ll find tools that walk you through:

Rebuilding a felt sense of safety in your body
Understanding what’s happening when your horse triggers fear or shutdown
10+ trauma-informed somatic practices to ground, process, and regulate
Real talk on riding again after trauma—when you’re ready, and how to do it right
Nervous system support, belief rewiring, and reflection sections that help you re-connect with your horse as a willing partner—not a threat

Shelby wrote this guide from personal experience—because she’s lived the fear firsthand.

A few years ago, she was crossing a river on horseback when her gelding tripped on a rock and went down hard. In that split second, everything changed. Though she walked away, she couldn’t shake the nervousness that crept in every time she swung a leg over. Her body would tighten. Her mind would spiral. And even though her horse was willing, her nervous system was screaming unsafe. That moment didn’t just leave a mark on her confidence—it reshaped her entire understanding of what it means to feel safe with a horse.

So she got to work. Not just in the arena, but inside herself.

She studied trauma, nervous system regulation, belief rewiring, and somatic healing. She looked at how those principles applied to horsemanship—and how often riders try to train overtop of trauma, with little success. The truth is, you can’t show up as a calm and confident leader if your body is still stuck in fear. No amount of groundwork or saddle time will fix what hasn’t been felt, processed, and healed.

That’s why this guide exists.

Inside Healing Inside a Herd of Two, you’ll find everything you need to begin that process. It starts with understanding what trauma is and how it lives in the body—not just your memories. You’ll be gently walked through ways to create a felt sense of safety again, even if the thought of riding makes your heart race. You’ll learn tools to calm your nervous system in the moment and over time, including 10+ trauma-informed somatic practices you can do on your own. There’s also reflection prompts, guided support for rewiring unhelpful beliefs, and ways to track your progress in both body and mind.

And when you’re ready—we recommend moving into Keith’s full Fundamentals Horsemanship Course. Why? Because once you’ve done the internal work of safety and healing, you’ll be in a much better place to communicate clearly with your horse, build leadership through trust, and make real, lasting changes in your training. Trying to train from a dysregulated nervous system usually results in more confusion, tension, and setbacks—for both horse and rider.

But doing this work first? It lays the groundwork for everything else to work better.

This isn’t just about healing—it’s about finally being able to enjoy your horse again. To ride with confidence. To step into your full potential, not as someone who’s “just trying to get back to where you were”… but someone who’s building a whole new relationship, grounded in softness, strength, and trust.

It’s the bridge between horsemanship and healing. And it’s only available inside our signature program:

The Fundamental Horsemanship Course

Keith Stewart’s Complete Collaborative Horsemanship Program

Value: $597 (Course only)

This is the program that folks say “changed everything.”

It combines the 3–4 clinics worth of in-person training into one online course that you can walk through at your own pace, anytime. No hauling. No pressure. Just Keith’s full, proven system—from groundwork to saddle—with step-by-step guidance that’s been refined over a lifetime of working horses and helping riders.

You’ll learn:

The Collaborative Horsemanship method that transforms dull, stubborn, or reactive horses into soft, willing companions
Keith’s Direct & Drive method to replace lunging with meaningful groundwork
How to problem-solve behaviour in a way that builds trust, not tension
How to move from confusion to clarity as the confident leader of your herd of two

And to make sure you have everything you need...

You’ll also get two MORE bonuses included:

✅ The Problem Solving Suite ($227 value)

Keith walks you through real-life horse behaviour problems—from not standing to saddle, to buddy sour behaviour, and more—with videos that show you exactly what to do and why.

✅ Horse Health is Horsemanship ($75 value)

Keith sits down with his equine bodyworker and vet to talk through what most horse folks miss when their horse is acting out—it’s often physical. This bonus teaches you to see the subtle signs of discomfort and support your horse holistically.